The surest way to wreck a good fling is to ask where it’s going. Even if you’re interested in getting serious, she might just be looking for a good time – not a long time. Here, the signs that she doesn’t want a relationship (with you).
Your Dates Always Involve Drinking
For her, you’re a good-times guy – not an all-the-time guy. She’ll take a fun Saturday night, but not a sober Sunday.
Your Relationship Is Nocturnal
She’ll go home with you, but she won’t spend the night. Waking up next to someone takes things to a new, serious level, and she doesn’t want to go there with you.
You’re Excluded from Her World
You can’t meet her family or be her plus-one at the office party. If she’s keeping you at arm’s length from her life, it’s probably because you’re just another guy.
She Won’t Make Plans for the Future
Forget about asking her to be your date at your buddy’s wedding; she won’t even commit to next Saturday. If she won’t plan for the future, it’s a good sign you shouldn’t, either.
She’s Dating Other People
If you’ve been dating for more than a month and she’s still seeing other people, you can forget about being her one and only – the interview is over. The only kind of relationship you’ll be having with her is an open (and short) one.
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