Mika Rekai 
I thought I’d write about men staring at women for a few reasons. Reason one: It’s summer. It’s going to come up. Reason two: All of my female friends think that this topic is extremely important, but thoroughly confusing. They all said ,“Sure, write about it. But don’t ask me … Read More
A couple of weeks ago I went to a press event for sex hotels. Specifically, I went to learn about Mr. and Mrs. Smith, a London-based boutique hotel collective which specializes in intimate and romantic get-aways. As I sat in a screening room at the Shangri-La Hotel in Toronto, double-fisting … Read More
A few months ago, an article in the New York Times about the changing nature of dating was the subject of louder than average tittering online. The article, called “The End of Courtship”, had all the hallmarks of we’ve come to expect from major print publications looking to understand the … Read More
I think most people appreciate that sex can sometimes be a painful experience, for men and women. Every now and then a lack of lube or sudden leg cramp will throw things a bit off, and whether you give up or keep going, it’s not a huge deal. But some … Read More
I don’t want to go on your thoughtful and creative first date. . . . I know that this sounds bad. When approaching the habits of thoughtful, considerate men, it’s hard to be critical. Disparaging considerate behavior, even when it’s warranted, can’t help but feel wrong . . . the … Read More
