There’s nothing be ashamed of: One-night stands happen. We’ve all been there. But, as with all aspects of male-female interaction, there’s a strict code of etiquette involved. One misstep, and she may quickly be reconsidering your one-night-only, no-strings-attached fit of passion. Here, some of the key rules.
Do not try to sleep over, cuddle or make love. One-nighters are about heat and passion and two people getting exactly what they need. When. They. Need. It. If you cuddle or ask her to stay over, you’ll confuse her. She may even start to wonder if you’re boyfriend material – and neither of you want that. Don’t muddy the water.
Do not, under any circumstances, attempt a one-night stand with a girl you know is crushing on you. This should go without saying. It’s cruel. If she’s hot and you lust for her, but you couldn’t see it going any further than a night, you’ll have to settle for whatever your imagination can provide.
Do not make her into locker room chat. If you have mutual friends – and you probably do – don’t brag to your pals. Odds are it’ll get back to her, and then you’ll be the one with the reputation.
Don’t take try to fulfill your deepest, darkest, dirtiest fantasies. If you make your one-night stand feel used, the only position you’ll attempt is lying on the bed, watching her walk away.
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