Jowita Bydlowska 
Confession: I’ve never understood why a guy’s enjoyment of smut would create an issue in a relationship. Personally, I quite enjoy porn. And I know many women who do. Men sometimes assume that women simply don’t. Don’t assume, and ask – we might surprise you. Off the top of my … Read More
You’ve been there before: She’s mad at her friend, possibly her friends, and she’s listing off her grievances to you. It’s a long list. You don’t have a clue as to how to respond, and you are starting to worry that when you do open your mouth, you are going … Read More
Trust me when I tell you good gifts are important. I’m a girl who once received a used microwave for Christmas from her boyfriend, now very much an ex-boyfriend (the used appliance was merely a symptom, but it started the breakup ball rolling). If you want to make your woman … Read More
Have you ever gone in to work the day after the holiday party and found it impossible to make eye contact with Carrie the Controller, or sensed your boss glaring at you so hatefully it felt like your cheek was blistering? Me neither. I’m not saying that I haven’t made … Read More
There’s nothing more confusing than a confused guy. By mythic reputation, men know what they want, and speak up when they want it. Well, I call b.s. on that. I wish I could show you the crapload of emails I exchanged with a former boyfriend who dumped me and then changed … Read More
