Tissue or Diss You

Even guys with testosterone levels off the charts have tearducts, which spill occasionally. We women more than understand. It’s A-OK by us, and we’re not going to think differently of you if you do. We’ll even hand you a tissue. There are times, though, a very few times, that shedding … Read More

I Ain’t Sayin’ She a Gold Digger

I’m a fan of Buffy. I believe in equal rights for women, and metaphorically kicking the ass of anyone who tries to impinge on them. I have a good job and a great paycheque. In short, I’m strong, independent, and doing well for myself. I always offer to pay my … Read More

Picking Up on Facebook

My wingman called me up late last night. “So is there any protocol to contact a cute girl on Facebook?” he asked. Turns out, he’s there to score. Why didn’t I think of that? According to this dubious, but probably not far off the mark source, the number of men … Read More

Interracial Dating

In a great city like Toronto, chances are you’re going to meet an attractive woman of another race. For most, that’s of no more consequence than if she lives in the 905. But, as common as interracial dating is, I’m the first black woman many guys have met. There are … Read More

The Girl on Girl Dance

Any guy (XY) who has ever been to a nightclub has certainly witnessed the spectacle of two girls (XX) getting dirty on the dance floor. Let’s call it The 4X Dance. Two women grinding on each other, getting in touch with their (alleged) inner lesbian. Titillating, perhaps scandalous, this is … Read More

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