going dutch
Recently at XX on XY, we’ve heard that men should always pay for dinner – and, in response, the argument that men should never pay. What we haven’t heard (from a writer – we’ve heard plenty from readers) is a realistic, reasonable perspective. Here’s a stab at it. On a … Read More
Well done, gentlemen. The rage you expressed over last week’s XX on XY story, “Why You Should Always Buy Dinner” bodes well for the future of feminism. By dismissing this offensive, 1950s dating relic, it shows you get that independent women don’t need you to “show us you care” with … Read More
Leave old-school chivalry to medieval knights. Unless you’re wearing tights and chainmail, you shouldn’t be abiding by centuries-old notions of how to treat a woman. (And if you are wearing tights and chainmail, please stop. It’s super-weird.) The trick to charming a modern-day lass is to bestow upon her a … Read More
I’m a fan of Buffy. I believe in equal rights for women, and metaphorically kicking the ass of anyone who tries to impinge on them. I have a good job and a great paycheque. In short, I’m strong, independent, and doing well for myself. I always offer to pay my … Read More
